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Lily28
Shanghai · Master's · Designer
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Today 14:30
你的旅行照片太美了——最后一张在哪拍的？
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Iceland — last winter ❄️
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冰岛！那正好排在我清单第一位。
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Maybe I'll take you someday 🙂
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